They say men and women come from different planets so you can imagine we do make a lot of mistakes concerning the opposite sex. If you want to get along better with your partner, make sure you avoid the following sins with this sex tips for couples:
What men think and the mistakes they make
Loving sex vs. Lusty sex
Men believe we only want soft touch. This may be true with some places but a bit of rough handling when it comes to other parts has never killed any woman. Better ask your partner what she feels like any time you approach her.
‘Women are not as dirty as we are’
Wrong. As a recent study shows, women seem to be much more aroused by explicit fantasies than they are by romantic ones. This can be proved by measuring the blood flow in the genitals, which is known to increase considerably when we are turned on.
‘The only way that a woman can reach orgasm is through intercourse’
No way. Penetration causes orgasm in only about 30% of women. Most of them need extra stimulation of the clitoris, or oral sex.
‘All women are looking for big penises’
That is a myth. What really counts is the width not the length, because most of the nerves in the vagina are concentrated in the first inch and a thick penis will connect with more nerve ends than a thin one will.
‘Sex without intercourse cannot be called sex’
For most of us foreplay is much more important than intercourse. Proper foreplay paves the way to a perfect encounter. Sex is indeed a lot more than penetration and women expect you to be creative.
‘Women are impressed if we change positions quite often during intercourse’
That is arguable, especially because men can mess things up very easy by doing that with a partner they don’t know well. However, changing positions works perfectly once you have learnt each other’s orgasm patterns and you do it to find the most suitable spot for the climax.
Most men rush women into orgasm
A woman takes more time to orgasm. It all depends on how turned on how turned on she is before you have laid hands on her and even on how much she has had to drink. Do not get impatient. Use your creativity to improve the sex act and make it memorable!
The mistakes that women make
‘Sex is always on a man’s mind’
No man is a love machine. They may have better sex drives but there are many things that can get them off the track. Thus, do not expect a man to be always ready to jump into bed for the purpose. Stress and work, as well as heated arguments can stop him in a flash.
‘Once he has ejaculated, sex is over’
In most cases it is, but you had better not rush into the wrong conclusion. While a man’s penis may be temporarily out of action, he can still use his mouth and hands. Thus, do not
get impatient. He will not leave you dry if you are important. Your time will come soon.
‘Sex is nothing more than sex to men’
That is so untrue! To a man, sex is a form of giving, a way for your man to feel physically and emotionally accepted. It is the best way to get close to a woman, especially when the man is not a word master. Thus, when you reject sex, you actually reject him as a person. Maybe you should at least accept a cuddle when you don’t feel like having sex with him.
Pay less attention to your body during sex
Most women miss the joy of the moment by focussing on the way they look and trying to avoid unflattering positions. There is one thing you should know. If a man wants to have sex with you, he doesn’t care about your flaws; to him, you are the sexiest woman on the planet.
Do not give instructions
If you feel the need to guide him into making you feel on cloud nine, make sure you let him know what you are after by avoiding directions. A little groan or a soft word should be enough.
